Well I recently have found and am still learning that love comes and goes. I had it. I felt it. I lost it. Recently Ive been out of a two year relationship and it is really tough to go from having someone to talk to everyday to not speaking to that person you shared so many secrets and challenges with. It took me exactly 9 months and way too many second chances to realize I deserve more. Now coming from me, thats a big step. I don't think I deserve much of anything but I'm finally learning that there is definitely someone out there for me and God has not put him in my life yet. It isn't love if you have to work all the time for it. Love isn't easy but if its true love then its easy to love that person. He gave me that first love to help me through two years of life and to help me grow as a person. He was placed in my life and served his purpose and now it is time to move on to the next chapter. I have never felt better. I keep seeing quotes that tell me you must be happy alone before you can make someone else happy and I don't think I could have believed it anymore than I do now.
So for anybody out there who is single, or has been in this position, don't get down. You should feel empowered and know that God has a plan and time and place and you will meet that person someday soon. You must keep focused, follow your dreams, smile for no reason, listen to happy music, dance around your room, make someone else smile, keep your faith in God.
Don't give up, love is out there but there isn't a love any stronger than the one God has for you. He'll provide when its time.
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